HOMECOACH

Parenting For Millennials Yesterday I got a very strong inspiration to write about parenting. There are four other articles in the works but the push to do this was strong. I took some time trying to convince myself that I have requisite capacity and insight to do this as I haven't birthed a child yet. In my initial life plan, I thought I will be a parent at least seven years ago but here I am without even a wife. Life can be funny and realizing this, we must go with the flow and know that there is a grander plan by the universe on each of our individual lives than our usually small and parochial expectations and plans. We do not always see the full picture per time but we must learn to live in rest that the universe has a motive and that we are adequately taken care of in that motive. Being a teacher in the last seventeen years qualifies me. Being a child to a marriage that suffered divorce qualifies me. Haven being given the opportunity and  responsibility by parent...

Why Happiness? Why Is Freedom Key? Freedom is key to happiness and happiness is key to good intention and creativity. When we are not free, we get unhappy and become unable to give our very best to life. Whenever we do not give our best to life, life recognizes this and pays us in ways that are detrimental to our wellbeing. Rich or poor we become restless when we are living below purpose, we become restless when we are not truly happy and free. That is the reason for the common saying that 'In Nigeria, the poor can't sleep because they are hungry; the rich can't sleep because the poor are awake'. In the end, none of us can truly sleep. Most of the world know us to be loud and restless. We need to work together in love to change these narratives. At 57 years of independence and more than a hundred years of corporate existence, here is a country in need of healing. With Life expectancy hovering around 46 for males and 56 for females; with one of the highest materna...